Harry and the "constant fear of losing Meghan Markle" (as mum Diana)
According to biographer Angela Levin, the prince would be "overwhelmed" by the concern that his wife's fate is intertwined with that of Lady D: "Meghan's suicidal thoughts have awakened the old trauma in him" (which he tries to cure with a special technique )
"I don't want history to repeat itself, I will fight to stop it." A concept on which Prince Harry, in all his recent outbursts, has always emphasized: in the crosshairs there are some tabloids (guilty, according to him, of not respecting privacy and inciting discredit campaigns) and the royal family ( accused instead of not listening to certain requests for help and not providing certain members with the necessary protection).
Another element that the duke brings up every time is racism, which - in his view - is also at the basis of the tragic accident of mother Diana. "She was chased to death because she was having an affair with a man who was not white," she said in the docuseries "The Me You Can't See". A discrimination that he said he also found at the Palace, after his engagement with Meghan Markle.
"Someone at court, while my wife was pregnant, she asked us if we knew how dark our baby's skin would be," he said during the first interview with Oprah Winfrey. Shedding light on the pressure that the Sussexes were forced to endure in London and which had even given Meghan suicidal thoughts: "It's amazing what the idea of losing another woman in my life can trigger in me."
And this, according to biographer Angela Levin, is one of the main points that guide the prince's behavior: "It is terrible if Harry constantly thought of losing Meghan, like his mother Diana, and found the culprit in racism", is the writer's post. on Twitter. "He can't get rid of the idea that his wife has thought about suicide. He should change his life and stop being a conference celebrity. '
Stepping away from the spotlight, however, doesn't appear in the prince's plans. At the moment, to combat anxiety, he relied on psychotherapy and - in particular - the EMDR method: "Let's go back with the mind and look at how the past can affect the present," explained expert Wendy Byrd. "The goal is to change the way in which the experience is memorized and thus stem the consequences of a trauma".
That trauma that marked Harry's life. And that Meghan's suicidal thoughts awakened.
