This statement has emerged amidst ongoing debates surrounding her relationship with the Firm since her marriage to Prince Harry in 2018. Valentine Low, royal correspondent of The Times, has made these claims in his book "Courtiers: The Hidden Power behind the Crown."
According to Low, individuals who closely worked with Meghan argue that she lacked a genuine desire to be embraced by the royal family.
While the validity of this assertion remains a topic of debate, it is suggested that if the institution had made more efforts to welcome her and if Meghan had been more willing to adapt to palace life, her integration could have been a resounding success.
Low suggests that she had the potential to become one of the royal family's greatest assets.
Meghan herself admitted to needing to learn a great deal when she started dating Prince Harry, confessing her ignorance regarding royal traditions and protocols. In her Netflix docuseries, she revealed her lack of familiarity with concepts such as the "walkabout," a term often associated with royal engagements where family members interact with the public. This admission reflects her initial unfamiliarity with the unique demands of her new role.
Meghan also shared an anecdote about her first meeting with the late Queen Elizabeth II, where Harry asked her if she knew how to curtsy. Initially, she thought he was joking, highlighting the cultural differences and the challenge of explaining such customs, especially to an American.
Since their decision to step down as senior working royals and relocate to the United States in March 2020, tensions between Meghan, Harry, and the rest of the Royal Family have been strained.
The couple's highly publicized interview with Oprah Winfrey and the subsequent release of Prince Harry's memoir, "Spare," have further fueled controversies and strained relationships. As a result, the Duke and Duchess of Sussex have been seen with the rest of the Royal Family on only a few occasions.
Prince Harry recently attended King Charles' Coronation alone, while Meghan remained in the US with their children, Prince Archie (four years old), and Princess Lilibet (two years old). Additionally, the couple faced a setback when they were compelled to vacate their UK residence, Frogmore Cottage.
The King's senior financial advisor, Sir Michael, confirmed their departure, stating that Meghan and Harry have fully reimbursed the Sovereign Grant for the renovation expenses, thereby enhancing the Crown's assets.
As the ongoing saga between Meghan Markle and the Royal Family continues, questions persist regarding the extent to which the lack of acceptance or adaptation contributed to the strained relationship. This narrative serves as a reminder that blending personal desires with the obligations and traditions of royalty can be a complex and challenging endeavor, even for those who enter with the best intentions.
