Harry and his wife's involvement in the controversial Oprah interview seemed to hit the family like sledgehammers. While we have discussed this topic before, the latest developments bring these issues into sharper focus.
During the mourning period and the funeral of the late Queen, Harry and Megan staged several attention-grabbing maneuvers. For instance, Megan expressed her desire to be by the Queen's side at Balmoral, leading to a reported two-hour argument between Harry and Megan.
As a result, Harry ended up arriving late and had to take a separate flight to Scotland. This delay seemingly caused a ripple effect, with the plane holding Prince William, Prince Andrew, and the Wessexes departing approximately 40 to 50 minutes later than scheduled.
Tragically, the Queen passed away while they were still in the air, robbing them of the chance to bid their final farewell. Furthermore, the media reported Megan's intended visit to Balmoral, likely leaked by unofficial sources. Additionally, the couple attempted a solo walkabout outside Windsor to observe the flowers and greet mourners, with the American media present.
CNN contacted Buckingham Palace about the situation, and King Charles alerted Prince William, eventually leading to a joint appearance after a 45-minute delay. During this delay, it is rumored that the new Prince of Wales confronted Megan and Harry, potentially addressing various matters and urging Megan to sober up.
Another point of contention arose when Harry was allowed to wear his uniform to the grandchildren's vigil, while the Earl Cipher was not in uniform. This discrepancy emerged because Harry had relinquished his military roles due to "Megxit" and was no longer entitled to wear the cipher. Furthermore, it was later released to the media that Harry and Megan were attending a reception for foreign dignitaries the night before the funeral. However, it is doubtful they were actually invited, considering they were no longer senior Royals. It appeared that they spun the situation to make it seem like the royal family had withdrawn their invitation.
Another incident worth noting is the alleged coordination with a photographer to capture a long-lens photo of Harry and Megan standing behind the King as he awaited the late Queen's coffin at Buckingham Palace. During that moment, no other royal family member was observed standing with or behind the King.
When considering these various stunts, alongside Megan's smirk during the public viewing of the Queen's coffin at Westminster Hall and the single tear that fell from her left eye after the funeral, it becomes apparent how much turmoil they caused during this tragic period. While some of these incidents may have been exaggerated or hearsay, they generated enough chaos to greatly disturb the Royal Family.
Consequently, it is perplexing to understand how and why anyone in the royal family would choose to forgive Harry. Their ability to tolerate him and his wife's behavior at the Queen's funeral and Duke's passing truly showcases the exceptional nature of the surviving members of the royal family. Their forgiveness and patience far surpass that of typical politicians, setting an example for future heads of state.
Personally, if a member of my family had engaged in all the actions that Harry has, I would likely find it difficult to forgive them. However, it is important to note that I am not a royal and have never experienced a privileged life. My lack of access to opportunities and financial constraints prevented me from completing medical school. I had to work and study simultaneously from the age of 18, eventually reaching a point where I had to choose between school and work since it became too demanding to do both.
On the other hand, Harry has been afforded every conceivable privilege. He could have seized numerous incredible opportunities and built a life of his own, transcending his role as the "spare" in the royal family. I'm not referring solely to becoming a scientist; there are countless other paths he could have chosen.
He could have easily been beloved by the people, just like his late mother was. He had the potential to become an incredible philanthropist. I mean, his position and title could have been a tremendous asset for him. However, it appears that everything changed when his mother passed away. He is not the first, nor will he be the last person to lose a mother at a young age. But something shifted within him when he met Meghan Markle, a woman who had a negative influence on him. She convinced him that his own family was responsible for his mother's death and fueled his belief that he was superior to his older brother, entitled to everything his brother, William, receives.
Personally, I find it difficult to forgive Harry for transforming into such a spiteful and bitter person. The damage inflicted upon him by Meghan seems irreparable. She is a predator, and unfortunately, Harry is a weak individual who fell into her trap. I have encountered women like Meghan before, and I have witnessed how they weave webs of lies, consistently portraying themselves as victims. They shed insincere tears, feigning helplessness. Perhaps it's not just a matter of my unwillingness to forgive Harry, but rather my complete lack of trust in him from this point onward.
Harry is a prince who willingly chose to marry Meghan Markle, a mediocre American actress. Meghan claimed to love him sincerely and even expressed her desire to abandon her acting career to fulfill her royal duties. The queen gave her that option, and yet, Meghan chose to hit the ground running by Harry's side, assisting with royal obligations. However, she soon discovered that these duties involved actual work, leading to her becoming increasingly controversial and difficult. She began blaming the royal family for various things, including imagined offenses. When she didn't get her way, she fled to the United States, dragging Harry along. They claimed they wanted to live a quiet, private life away from excessive publicity. However, their actions proved otherwise. Why else would Meghan pay millions of dollars to PR companies to ensure her photos and name were constantly in the media, as she aimed to become the most famous person on the planet?
Since their departure, both Meghan and Harry have continuously targeted the royal family and the people of the UK at every opportunity. They have propagated numerous lies. Harry even published a book of revelations, including inappropriate details such as his frostbitten penis and his use of his late mother's cream to remedy it. It's utterly disgusting that he thought it was acceptable to share such intimate information. Nonetheless, the royal family has remained steadfast, choosing to ignore their actions and focusing on serving the people of the UK and the Commonwealth. The royal family has done nothing wrong; their reputation continues to soar, and they are more popular than ever.
On the other hand, Meghan and Harry's popularity has plummeted. The British public wants nothing to do with them. In fact, if they were to return to the UK as active members of the royal family, they would be in for a rude awakening. They would quickly realize that nobody wants them there. They will never be forgiven for all they have done, and rightfully so.
Harry was well aware of the proper conduct expected within his family, yet he allowed his disrespectful wife to mistreat his grandmother. Just consider the disgraceful curtsy incident. Meghan must be the rudest, most hateful, and nastiest person I have ever seen in the public eye. They do not deserve forgiveness from anyone.
At the end of the day, members of the British royal family are still human beings who live their lives. It is inevitable for humans to make mistakes; that's what life is all about. Forgiveness is an essential human quality. The British public is also comprised of human beings who, at times, experience their own share of mistakes and mishaps. The question of forgiveness, in this context, seems absurd. No member of the royal family has ever intentionally deceived or harmed the British public. Why, then, should they require forgiveness simply for living their lives?
However, everything changed when Meghan Markle entered the picture, deliberately attempting to deceive, manipulate, and exploit both the family and the public for her personal gain. At this point, most people do not even consider Meghan a genuine member of the royal family. She was merely an unfortunate blip caused by a rogue prince who will hopefully come to his senses and sign those divorce papers eventually.
