I've only ever heard Meghan give one explanation for why she fell in love with Harry – because they laughed a lot on their first date. Correct me if anyone's heard or read differently, but that is the only thing I've ever heard Meghan mention about what made her fall for Harry.
And she doesn't even explain what kind of humor they had in common. All I imagine is Harry telling dumb jokes and Meghan pretending to find them funny. At least Harry gave a few more explanations for his feelings – she was beautiful, she reminded him of his mum, and they cared about the same causes.
Meghan is a pathological liar, and yet she hasn't been able to drum up a few more lies to at least make their matchup seem plausible. Harry remembered little things I told him about myself, he was caring towards my mom-dog friends, he was consistent and reliable, he made me feel heard and validated, I felt like I could be myself around him, he taught me how to trust again after my first marriage failed. Her version goes: we laughed a lot on our first date, quickly arranged day two, then we were immediately in a committed relationship and focused all our energies on making it work.
The reason why they flopped, even with the whole docu-series dedicated to their true love story under their belts, is because we don't believe in their true love story. And the reason we don't believe it is because it's not true. Meghan doesn't seem to understand that being an interracial couple is not enough to convince us in the 21st century.
It's because the paparazzi shoots are literally all she knows how to do. Meghan has learned at some point that PR companies do schedule paparazzi photographs for promotion or setting narratives. This is, however, all she knows about PR, and she uses this tactic constantly because it's so easy to just call up. The attempted narrative this time was something like Meghan and Harry on a cute date on the day after Diana's birthday, hence why she's also LARPing in her Diana outfit. It also works because most people don't know that paparazzi shoots are organized, so it fools many.
And she always overdoes them. If she's in London, she dresses like an English country girl, what she imagines her to dress like, and gets a bag with a slogan to show off her activism. When she goes on a hike in LA, she looks like an archaeologist. In New York, she's in the two-hour car chase. She can just be seen with Harry, she gets Cameron Diaz in the background, or Diana cosplay, or overdresses in a pink pantsuit, etc., grinning and looking at the camera.
One psychologist said arguing with your partner is a good sign of a strong marriage. If couples say they don't argue, that means they're lying or they don't care enough about issues and can't be bothered to argue, or one of them is suppressing, bullying, emotionally abusing the other, and that person is too scared to argue and does anything they can for a quiet life.
Being able to argue and discuss issues, reach an agreement, and then move on without holding grudges or seeking retribution is a sign of a healthy relationship. However, for Harry and Meghan, it has always seemed like a fake relationship. Harry is so fixated on Meghan being the reincarnation of Diana that he is blinded, or perhaps subconsciously aware that she is merely playing a role, and he is willing to go along with it. On the other hand, Meghan seems to be in it for herself.
To be blunt, Harry appears to be whipped and now finds himself stuck and miserable with a difficult wife, two children, and no practical means to provide for his family due to a lack of skills. This is evident in the permanent miserable look on his face. His only notable career was in the military.
Now, it's not to say that individuals in the military don't acquire transferable skills, because they certainly do. However, in Harry's case, his life experiences seem to revolve around having each day planned by aides or military directives.
As a result, he is completely lost when it comes to determining what he should do with his life. He lacks real-life transferable skills and has no clue about handling interpersonal relationships. This is his own fault, as he has had ample time as an adult to learn these skills through therapy, of which he has undergone plenty.
His best course of action would be to seek assistance from a company that specializes in helping veterans assimilate into civilian life, as his situation is quite similar. He may also benefit from inpatient drug and alcohol abuse therapy, as is common in Hollywood with sobriety retreats. It's unfortunate for him that his father is not his bank, just as our fathers are not ours.
There's an old saying that still holds true – "You've made your bed, now lie in it." I'm sure everyone has heard some version of this in their lifetime, and now it's Harry's turn to hear the same sentiment from his own father. Unfortunately, he cannot claw his way out of the pit he has dug for himself and must accept the consequences. Only Harry can help himself.
I came across an article that described Meghan as a "valley girl" in the most intentional sense of the word. Based on what I have seen, I believe she is an awful, manipulative, narcissistic individual who will drain any man of societal stature of his spirit and bank account.
In conclusion, it is possible to be wealthy, whether from old money or newly acquired riches, and still be devoid of decency or the ability to manage wealth. Harry and Meghan are prime examples of people who lack the desire to improve themselves or others. They couldn't be bothered to try harder, honor contracts, help others, learn, or do the right thing. Moreover, they possess no valuable skills or societal worth worth promoting.
Comparatively, Meghan Markle can be likened to Hyacinth Bucket from the 1990s BBC show "Keeping Up Appearances." Hyacinth was an aspirational character who desperately sought upper-class elite status despite her lower-class roots.
She was an extraordinary poser, going to ridiculous lengths to put on a facade and impress others. Megan is reminiscent of Hyacinth in her attempts to guide Harry from room to room, saying "shall we" as she makes exaggerated sweeping hand motions.
It appears as if she picked up this behavior from movies like "The Princess Diaries" or those Hallmark films where an American marries a prince from a vaguely defined country during Christmas time. However, such sweeping, fake gestures are not commonly made by Americans unless they are imitating Gal Gadot as Wonder Woman.
