Welby, according to sources with knowledge of the situation, believes that Meghan, a divorced former actress, has failed to exhibit adequate deference and reverence to the royal family since her 2018 wedding to Prince Harry. Meghan has encountered conflicts with royal protocol on numerous occasions, including instances involving the application of dark nail varnish, public greetings, and political dissent. Her behaviour has additionally caused tension in her relationship with William, the future King of England and brother of Prince Harry.
Meghan is understandably distressed by Welby's decree, which she interprets as a rejection and a disgrace. Meghan, who resides in California with Harry and their children Archie and Lilibet, reportedly told her acquaintances that she abstains from curtsying to Kate because she considers her an adversary and a bully. Kate has been accused by Meghan of disseminating false information about her in the media and being unwelcoming. She considers Welby's insistence on this custom to be discriminatory.
Prince Harry is tormented between his allegiance to Meghan and his esteem for the Archbishop and the Queen as he is entangled in this dispute. During the holiday season, he also desires a reconciliation with his family and anticipates a traditional Christmas celebration. In order to avoid missing the crucial Christmas service, he harbours the hope that either Welby will cave in or Meghan will reconsider her position.
It seems improbable, nevertheless, that Welby will alter his position. If Meghan declines to curtsy to Kate, he reportedly has the authority to forbid her from the service or publicly reprimand her. Welby is resolute in his commitment to uphold the integrity and cohesion of the church and the royal family; he will not condones overt disobedience or disrespect exhibited by Meghan.
Welby has the support of the Queen and the majority of the British populace due to his status as a potent and influential member of both the royal family and the church. It appears that he is intent on enforcing the regulations, irrespective of the potential repercussions for Meghan. Welby is ultimately resolute in his intention to prevent Meghan's actions from upsetting the Christmas atmosphere and the royal family and church's harmony.
