Harry experienced trauma inside his family due to the fact that his family members, despite loving him, were burdened by their own traumatic experiences and inadvertently transmitted them to the succeeding generation," he clarified. "I inadvertently transmitted my trauma to my children." Resolving these issues is possible when both parties are willing and own their fallibility. I do believe that Harry has made errors, and this applies to both sides. Individuals have the capacity to resolve issues, but occasionally they are unable to do so. Moreover, there are instances where individuals discover a sense of liberation by intentionally disengaging.
He further remarked, "Numerous individuals find themselves in such circumstances." Harry is a member of a family with a disturbed young mother, a loveless marriage, and a father who had an affair before Harry was born.
"In a family where physical contact and affection were scarce, there were several reasons to believe that he experienced significant trauma as a child. In order to develop his own identity, he had to create emotional distance." Did he execute it correctly, precisely according to the perfect method? Possibly not. However, upon self-reflection around the age of 38 or 35, it is evident that I have made numerous errors. "This is all a component of the human narrative, and occasionally families find resolution while other times they do not," Dr. Mate concluded.
