This was an emotional time, and the family dinner was likely to discuss continuity plans for the monarchy. It's awkward to have that conversation with the guy who bailed to America and criticized the Royals. If Harry were still a working royal, I'm sure he would have been included. But he forfeited that privilege when he chose to leave. Actions have consequences; it may suck, but Harry made his decision. Now he's upset about being on the outside looking in. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Perhaps if Harry hadn't burned so many bridges, there would be more trust. You can't keep blasting the royals and expect the red carpet treatment. The exclusion was understandable given the circumstances; the king and Prince William needed privacy.
However, Harry's ego took over. Instead of being sensitive to their grief, he made it all about himself and now seeks revenge. That's some next-level narcissism. What happened to the man who walked behind his mother's coffin at 12? Where's the maturity and dignity? Throwing a tantrum and threatening to sabotage your family after your grandma's death is peak selfishness — shameful.
I'm sure Harry's ghostwriter is eager to spill the drama and grab those tabloid headlines. At the end of the day, being excluded from a dinner party is petty, and Harry needs to grow up and get over himself. If he truly wanted to honor his grandmother, how about showing some class?
