However, cracks soon appeared, with reports emerging from Kensington Palace of demands, tantrums, and high staff turnover, largely attributed to Meghan. Despite attempts by the palace to downplay these issues, it became evident that all was not well. Lady Fellowes had expressed concerns to other family members about Meghan's understanding and respect for their traditions and ways.
Fast forward to 2020, when Harry and Meghan announced their departure, dubbed "Megxit." They cited a desire for financial independence and a desire to forge their own paths, but many interpreted this as Meghan exerting influence over Harry. Their bombshell interview with Oprah Winfrey only added fuel to the fire, with allegations of racism within the royal family and claims that Kate Middleton had made Meghan cry before her wedding. While the palace issued rare statements denying these allegations, the damage was done.
Lady Fellowes revealed that this interview was the final straw for Princess Diana's family, including her sons, who lost trust in Meghan. According to Diana's will, signed in 1993, all her cherished jewels were to be passed down to her sons and their wives, including her sapphire and diamond engagement ring and diamond daisy earrings. When Harry married Meghan in 2018, she received Diana's jewels as a welcome into the family. However, Lady Fellowes disclosed that due to Harry and Meghan's actions post-Megxit, including the Oprah interview, the family had decided that upon their inevitable divorce, Meghan would no longer have rights to Diana's jewels.
Princess Diana intended for her sons' brides to wear her jewels proudly and represent the monarchy with dignity. However, Meghan's actions, focused on personal gain and celebrity status in America, contradicted this vision. Prince William, in particular, was reportedly incensed by Meghan's comments in the Oprah interview and expressed to Harry that if they chose to pursue their Hollywood ambitions, Meghan would lose the symbolic connection to Diana through her jewels.
Lady Fellowes emphasized that Diana's will couldn't be changed, but the family would ensure her jewels went to someone uplifting the House of Windsor rather than seeking personal gain. Despite this decision, Meghan and Harry's supporters have criticized Diana's family, arguing that Meghan shouldn't be scapegoated for Harry's decision to leave. However, others point out that Meghan and Harry had the privilege of senior royal roles and chose to step away, now profiting from their titles with lucrative deals like Spotify and Netflix partnerships.
There's a clear divide in opinions surrounding the Sussexes. Some believe Meghan instigated their move to America and shouldn't benefit from Diana's possessions, while others argue she should be entitled to them. Regardless, tensions within the royal circles remain high, with Prince William reportedly fully supporting Queen Elizabeth II amidst the ongoing controversy.
