Why Shellfish Is Avoided at Royal Meals and Other Etiquette Rules
The British royal family follows a strict set of traditions, from travel protocols for heirs to specific dining rules at official gatherings. Among these customs, one lesser-known yet significant rule is the avoidance of shellfish at official royal meals due to the risk of food poisoning.
In addition to dietary precautions, another key protocol dictates that no one should walk ahead of the reigning monarch. These customs extend beyond dining and movement to include how royal women are expected to conduct themselves in public appearances—particularly when it comes to posture and sitting etiquette.
Female members of the royal family are traditionally expected to sit with their legs together or crossed at the ankle, a refined pose commonly referred to as the “Duchess Slant.” This poised sitting style exudes elegance and is seen as a mark of royal decorum.
Meghan Markle, the Duchess of Sussex, encountered criticism early in her royal journey for momentarily deviating from this expectation. A resurfaced video from the 2018 Young Leaders Awards at Buckingham Palace shows Meghan seated next to Prince Harry and Queen Elizabeth II during one of her first official engagements. In the clip, she briefly crosses her legs before quickly adjusting her posture to conform to royal standards.
Although a minor moment, it ignited debate among royal watchers, with some accusing Meghan of breaking protocol and showing a lack of respect for the Queen. This incident became one of many instances where Meghan’s American upbringing seemed to clash with the formalities of royal life, further fueling discussions about the challenges she faced in adapting to her role within the monarchy.
