In the 2022 Netflix documentary Harry & Meghan, Prince Harry opened up about missing the UK and his old friends, saying, “I lost a few mates after moving to Montecito with Meghan Markle.” It was a raw moment that showed the emotional cost of leaving royal life behind for a quieter existence in California. The episode also gave us a peek into their 2018 wedding with sweet photos—like a black-and-white shot of Harry with his buddies, including Lord Vivian, outside Windsor Castle. Those pics screamed nostalgia, but fast forward to now, and that bond’s looking shaky.
Lord Vivian, 58, just married Sorida Kamar at Chelsea’s Old Town Hall—a spot famous for big-name weddings like Judy Garland and Mick Jagger’s. The party moved to the swanky Nomad Hotel, with killer views of the Royal Opera House, oozing class and glamour. But here’s the kicker: Harry was invited and didn’t show. When PR guru Richard Eden asked why, Lord Vivian shrugged, “I don’t know—he’s got a lot on his plate.” Cue the raised eyebrows. This wasn’t just any wedding—Harry was at Vivian’s first one to Elizabeth Vimress, showing how tight they once were. So, what gives?
Harry’s been back to the UK lately, but not for fun. He’s been tied up at the Royal Courts of Justice, fighting for better police protection for him, Meghan, and their kids during visits. That 5,000-mile trip from Cali isn’t a quick jaunt, and legal drama’s clearly trumping old friendships. Missing Vivian’s big day stings extra since Mark Dyer—Harry’s “surrogate dad”—was there, proving some ties still hold strong. But Vivian’s “he’s busy” comment has royal watchers buzzing: Is this another friendship fraying from Harry’s royal exit?
This isn’t just gossip—it’s a peek into how Harry’s juggling his past and present. Ditching royal duties in 2020 was his shot at freedom, but it’s cost him. The Netflix doc, Oprah interview, and his memoir *Spare* keep him in the spotlight, yet he’s skipping chances to reconnect IRL. Lord Vivian’s wedding could’ve been a reunion, but instead, it’s a reminder of the sacrifices—friendships included—he’s made for this new life with Meghan. As he builds his future, those old UK bonds still tug, strained but not totally snapped. What’s next for Harry and his crew? Time will tell.
