Royal inside sources reveal that the Princess of Wales has long been uncomfortable with certain festive rituals enforced under Queen Elizabeth. One of the most contested? The tradition of opening all Christmas presents on Christmas Eve—a practice that clashes with how most modern families celebrate.
Kate Middleton, allegedly, views this rule as “bizarre” and emotionally disconnected from the joy children associate with Christmas morning. “She can’t wait to move toward a more familiar Christmas morning, particularly one that feels magical and relaxed for the children rather than bound by protocol,” a trusted Royal inside confidant shared.
But the gift-giving timing isn’t the only tradition drawing criticism. Perhaps the most eyebrow-raising custom involves weighing guests on scales before and after Christmas lunch—a ritual reportedly started by King Edward VII and maintained under Queen Elizabeth as a lighthearted (though awkward) nod to indulgence.
Kate Middleton, however, sees it differently. Allegedly, she considers the practice “old-fashioned, awkward and a bit cruel,” especially in today’s climate of body awareness and sensitivity. “She wants Christmas to center on warmth, ease, and shared time together, rather than rituals that single people out or invite judgment,” the source explained.
This shift in tone was already evident during recent holidays. Though Queen Elizabeth’s legacy still loomed over Sandringham, Royal inside observers noted a stark contrast at Anmer Hall—Kate and William’s Norfolk residence. “The atmosphere was noticeably more relaxed and informal,” the source said. “It felt closer to a typical middle-class family Christmas, with gifts exchanged on Christmas Day and none of the ceremonial weigh-ins.”
Under Queen Elizabeth, festive rigidity was non-negotiable. But Kate Middleton appears determined to reimagine the monarchy’s holiday spirit—one that prioritizes emotional connection over antiquated ceremony. “She’s allegedly been vocal about making the season feel inclusive rather than staged,” added the insider.
The Princess of Wales isn’t seeking to erase history, but to humanize it. And for many, that means finally letting go of rules perceived as cruel or out of touch. “In practical terms,” the Royal inside source clarified, “that means doing away with formal Christmas Eve gift rituals and abandoning the post-lunch weigh-in.”
As the monarchy transitions into a new era, Kate Middleton’s influence is already reshaping its heart—starting with how they celebrate Christmas. Whether under the weight of tradition or the warmth of change, one thing is clear: the days of Queen Elizabeth’s strict Christmas rule may soon be behind them.
