A former co-worker is spilling some serious tea about Harry and Meghan’s relationship, and it’s not the fairy tale story their PR machine wants us to believe.
Compare that to the love story of our beloved Prince and Princess of Wales, William and Catherine. Their love has stood the test of time because it’s real. Their interactions, their subtle glances, the way they support each other—that’s what genuine love looks like. No need for constant PR releases telling us how in love they are.
Now, about this former co-worker’s comments about Harry being protective of Meghan because "people are so nasty to her"—oh, please. Let’s call it what it really is: control. Our once confident and charismatic Prince now seems like a completely different person in public when she’s around. Remember the old Harry—the one who could light up a room with his charm and natural warmth? Now, he’s reduced to being Meghan’s security blanket, constantly scanning for perceived threats and microaggressions that exist mainly in their own minds.
And let’s talk about these so-called "solo ventures." Isn’t it interesting how Meghan’s entrepreneurial track always seems to involve leveraging her royal connections? Meanwhile, Harry’s patronage work seems mostly to consist of appearing in paid speaking engagements where he can criticize his family. It’s like watching a slow-motion car crash, and we all know who’s in the driver’s seat.
Let’s be real for a moment—Harry’s joke about the divorce rumors isn’t the confident dismissal they want us to think it is. When you’re truly secure in your relationship, you don’t need to constantly address rumors. Look at how William and Catherine handled negativity—with dignity and silence, letting their actions speak louder than words. The most telling part of all this is how different Harry is when he’s alone versus when he’s with Meghan. It’s like watching two different people. The Harry who shows up solo still has glimpses of his old self—that natural charm and ease with people. But the moment Meghan appears, it’s like someone puts a straightjacket on him. He becomes tense, hypervigilant, almost defensive.
Think about it: why would someone need to change their entire personality around their spouse if they’re truly comfortable and in love? I’ve been married for years, and let me tell you—real love allows you to be more yourself, not less. These constant stories about their "hot relationship"—come on. We’ve all been in relationships or know couples in love. Real passion doesn’t need a press release. It doesn’t need carefully worded statements from sources close to the couple. It just exists, naturally and authentically, like what we see with William and Catherine.
And the timing of these stories? Always so convenient, isn’t it? Whenever there’s negative press or speculation about trouble in paradise, suddenly we get glowing reports about their passionate love life. It’s PR 101, and frankly, it’s getting a bit desperate.
Remember how different things were when Harry first met Meghan? The spark seemed genuine then. He was still our beloved Prince, and she was the fresh face bringing something new to the royal family. But somewhere along the line, it all went wrong. The question is—was it ever really right, or were we all just caught up in the fairy tale?
Let’s look at the pattern here. Every time their popularity dips or there’s negative press, we either get a new bombshell revelation about the royal family or these sugary sweet stories about their amazing relationship. It’s becoming so predictable, it would be funny if it weren’t so sad.
And Harry’s comment about feeling sorry for the "trolls" who keep expecting them to divorce? Classic deflection. Instead of addressing the very real concerns people have about their relationship, they dismiss anyone who questions their narrative as a troll. It’s the same playbook they’ve been using since day one—anyone who doesn’t buy into their story is either racist, mean, or a troll.
You know what really breaks my heart? Watching Harry become more and more isolated from his family. This is a man who was once incredibly close to his brother, who had a special bond with his grandmother, who was beloved by the British people. Now, he’s essentially exiled himself to California, defending his wife’s every move while she systematically dismantles his relationships with everyone who ever cared about him.
And let’s talk about these solo ventures they’re supposedly focusing on. Meghan’s attempts at building her brand have been one flop after another. The Spotify deal? Gone. The Netflix content? Largely forgotten. The only time either of them generates significant interest is when they’re talking about the royal family—usually negatively. Their supporters will say they’re "finding their feet" or "building their empire," but let’s be honest—what have they actually achieved since leaving the royal family? Their biggest moments have all been about criticizing the institution they left. That’s not building something new—that’s just burning bridges for profit.
The contrast with William and Catherine couldn’t be more stark. While the Sussexes are busy giving interviews about how hard their life is, the Prince and Princess of Wales are quietly getting on with their duties, raising their children, and actually making a difference in people’s lives. They don’t need to tell us they’re in love. We can see it in every interaction.
I’ve got to say, watching this whole situation unfold has been like watching a slow-motion train wreck. The sad part is, I think Harry knows it too. You can see it in his eyes sometimes, especially when he’s at events without Meghan. There’s a sadness there, a longing for what he’s lost.
The timing of this latest revelation about their relationship—just when Catherine is recovering from surgery and King Charles is dealing with his health issues—is classic Meghan PR strategy. Try to grab headlines when the focus is on other royals. It’s becoming so transparent, it’s almost embarrassing.
And remember the early days when they couldn’t keep their hands off each other? It felt genuine then. Now, every interaction feels choreographed, like they’re performing for the cameras rather than actually connecting with each other.
What about their children? We barely see them, which is fine—children deserve privacy. But they’re used as props in their parents’ narrative whenever it’s convenient. "We’re doing this for our children," they say, while consistently putting their own needs and desires ahead of what would actually benefit their kids—like having a relationship with their extended family.
The saddest part is, this could have been so different. They could have had it all—the platform to make real change, the support of the royal family, the love of the British people. Instead, they chose a path of constant conflict and controversy, always playing the victims while actually being the aggressors.
Look at how they handled their royal exit. Instead of working things out privately with the family, they dropped their bombshell announcement without warning. Instead of gradually transitioning to their new life, they went scorched earth, burning every bridge they could on their way out.
And now, we’re supposed to believe they’re more in love than ever? That Harry’s protective behavior is romantic, rather than concerning? That their separate ventures are a sign of strength, rather than growing apart? Please—we weren’t born yesterday. The reality is, what we’re seeing is a relationship built on mutual need rather than mutual love. Meghan needed Harry’s royal status to elevate her profile, and Harry needed someone to validate his long-held grievances against his family and the institution. That’s not love—that’s a transaction.
But here’s what really gets me—the wasted potential. Harry was in such a unique position to do good in the world. He had the platform, the connections, the goodwill of the public. And what’s he doing with it now? Appearing in paid speaking engagements, giving interviews about his family, and defending his wife’s latest PR moves.
Remember when he was focused on meaningful causes like the Invictus Games? When he was making a real difference in people’s lives? Now, everything seems to revolve around their personal grievances and maintaining their celebrity status. It’s such a step down from what he could have been.
And Meghan—she could have been a force for positive change within the monarchy. Instead, she seemed more interested in changing the monarchy to suit her needs. When that didn’t work, she orchestrated their exit in a way that caused maximum damage to the institution.
The former co-worker’s revelations aren’t really revelations at all—they’re just confirmation of what many of us have been seeing for years. This is a relationship built on shared grievances and mutual need, rather than genuine love and respect.
