Meghan Markle’s Netflix series With Love, Meghan has come under fire, with a doctor branding it as filled with "shallow, toxic positivity" that could be damaging to moms. Let’s break it all down.
Doctor Slams Meghan’s Netflix Show for Unrealistic Parenting Advice
The Daily Mail reports that Dr. Max Pemberton has called out Meghan’s TV show for its unrealistic portrayal of motherhood. According to Dr. Max, the series promotes an unattainable standard of parenting that could leave many mothers feeling inadequate.
One of the standout moments he highlights? Meghan’s conversation with guest Mindy Kaling. Meghan asks Mindy about how she organizes her children’s parties, to which Mindy casually responds, "The woman I hire does."
Dr. Max finds this exchange both laughable and revealing. He questions the logic behind featuring a celebrity who doesn’t actually plan her own kids' parties, thanks to her wealth, in an episode supposedly offering parenting advice.
And honestly? He’s got a point. Many viewers, myself included, found it bizarre that Meghan would choose Mindy Kaling to discuss children’s parties when she openly admits to outsourcing the entire process. If you’ve got the money, sure—why not? But how is this relatable to the average parent struggling to juggle work, finances, and family life?
The Show’s Toxic Message to Moms
Dr. Max further criticizes the show for creating unrealistic expectations for parents. He notes that the elaborate party setups, meticulously arranged snack platters, and custom gift bags depicted in the show may leave many mothers feeling like they’re failing if they can’t provide the same experience for their children.
But as Dr. Max bluntly puts it, "No child cares about this stuff. It’s competitive and performative parenting, plain and simple."
And let’s be real—he’s right. Kids just want to have fun, not worry about matching table decor and handcrafted snacks.
It’s not just the unrealistic parenting standards that have critics talking. Meghan’s father, Thomas Markle Sr., recently spoke out about her Netflix series, calling her "inauthentic and fake." This aligns with Dr. Max’s argument that the show is all about appearance rather than genuine connection.
Even users on Mumsnet have slammed Meghan’s approach, calling it "just another way to show off and make other moms feel inadequate."
Dr. Max goes on to highlight a major contradiction: Meghan preaches that perfection isn’t necessary, yet every detail of her show screams carefully curated, stress-inducing perfection. He sarcastically notes that her "perfectly coordinated cookware and outfits" hardly make her an authority on embracing imperfection.
Dr. Max also points out the absurdity of Meghan’s suggestions for entertaining guests and organizing children's parties. He jokes about how unrealistic it is for parents to have time to meticulously craft personalized gift bags when most are barely managing their daily tasks.
He adds, "In a cost-of-living crisis, when many can’t afford basic groceries, let alone edible flowers, this just feels like mean-girl trolling." And honestly? He’s not wrong. Many parents are just trying to make ends meet—fancy organic spreads and customized party favors aren’t exactly top priorities.
Dr. Max’s verdict? With Love, Meghan is out of touch and filled with "toxic positivity" that’s more performative than practical. The show attempts to present an aspirational lifestyle but ends up alienating real parents who don’t have the luxury of nannies, personal chefs, and event planners.
At the end of the day, kids just want to play, have fun, and eat cake. No need for extravagant table settings or handmade decorations—sometimes, simple is best.
